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Hello, my fellow humans. As you can probably gather from the title- I am here to publish 100 of my life goals. I want to clarify that I am not tackling these all at once. I read in another post that to know what to do next you need to know where you want to go. So I just wrote up 100 goals for my immediate and far-ahead future. Without further ado-

100 Life Goals

Personal Development:

1. Develop a daily routine. 
2. Learn a second language. (Spanish or sign language.)
3. Take a self-defense class
4. Read at least 5 books by the end of 2023
5. Learn to embrace and listen to my emotional self.
6. Become a morning person. (I know- terrifying.)
7. Fully process and heal my inner child.
8. Share my full self. Share my time, my feedback, opinions, knowledge, and skills. 
9. Become more mindful. Learn how to live in the present and make decisions that better our lives and the world around us. 
10. Develop better verbal communication skills. 

Finance:

11. Create a family budget.
12. Start a savings fund for Kai
13. Save $2500 by the end of 2023
14. Get rid of St. Luke’s Debt
15. Pay off Dylan’s school loans
16. Pay off credit card
17. Get a continual income by January 2023
18. Build good credit
19. Take some sort of financial class
20. Learn how to use our money most effectively.

Travel: 

21. Get a passport for the whole family by next year
22. Travel to all the states
23. Take Kai to the coast
24. Visit three other countries
25. Visit local sights and document them
26. Hike 10 local-ish paths 
27. Ride a train 
28. Go on a family road trip when Kai is a little older
29. Play flight roulette 
30. Visit 5 National parks 

Health & Fitness:

31. Get my A1C down to 7-8
32. Mindful Movement Everyday (Ex. yoga, stretching, or walking)
33. Try a new style of workout 3x every week for the next month to figure out what kind of workout style works for me.
34. See a raise in muscle mass and decrease in fat percentages in next body scan
35. 80-20 rule for eating. 80% “good, nutritionally dense foods, and 20% free for all
36. Mental health: have a clean home environment. 
37. Be able to complete a Tough Mudder race with Dylan by end of 2023
38. Sign up for a fitness class (Ex. yoga, kickboxing, etc.)
39. Be able to do 35 pushups to match Dylan (yes, he went easy on me, lol)
40. Take my vitamins daily and hydrate (64 oz daily-minimum)

Career: 

41. Post at least 3 blogs a week
42. Have a finished draft of Scribble of a Scrambled Mind completed by January 2023
43. Learn how to boost my networking abilities
44. Apply for writing gigs
45. Learn how to market art
46. Finish designing Cor.Fitness website
47. Take a business class
48. Learn more about marketing
49. Be consistent about posting on social media
50. Branch out and seek out mentors (blogging, mindful living, writing)

Lifestyle:

51. Publish a Novel
52. Adopt a few animals
53. Have a home full of healthy and thriving plants
54. Focus on being a good homemaker
55. Prioritize motherhood- Don’t miss the little moments
56. Embrace a mindful lifestyle
57. Consume less-Utilize more
58. Learn how to grow a garden & can for food for my family
59. Embrace my inner modern hippie
60. Embrace the new small town life

Family & Friends:

61. Spend quality time with my boys regularly 
62. Reach out, make and spend time with friends
63. Have my younger siblings come over for a sleepover once a month
64. Have facetime calls on Sundays with family
65. Eat dinner as a family at least 5x a week
66. Have a family movie night on Saturdays
67. Push my social boundaries when I can
68. Talk to people on social media more (in seek of friendships)
69. Don’t be afraid to take things slow- in order to prioritize the small moments with my family. 
70. Communicate my needs in order to keep the household running.

Motherhood:

71. Take time to listen. While Kai cannot communicate his needs verbally yet, it does not mean he does not tell me what he needs. Take the time to listen.
72. Understand that I will make mistakes and that is okay. The key to being a good parent is being accountable to those mistakes and do my best not to repeat them. 
73. Be kind and patient. I know that it is hard sometimes to regulate your emotions when you are over stimulated by Kai- but be a good example of regulation by staying kind and patient while he is learning to be a whole human of his own. 
74. Be silly. Trying to be perfect is boring and overrated. Let Kai see you be silly and fun. Show him how to dance with the world rather than fight against it. 
75. Be there and love. No matter what stupid little mistakes you make, your presence, your love, and being there for him is most important. 

Romantic Relationships:

76. Communicate. Even when things are hard to discuss or when feelings are tense- talk it out. A rough conversation is better than a brutal assumption. 
77. Never go to bed angry. Always get to a place where we can hold hands and go to sleep peacefully. Resolutions make for better sleep. 
78. Communicate our appreciation and adoration often. When you live together and have a baby- it’s easy to assume that the other knows you love them. But don’t let that stop you from reminding them. 
79. Communicate via their love language and ask them to communicate via yours. Learn all the ways to say I love you everyday. 
80. Be each others support system. Everything is not always easy. In fact it is often hard. So know and build a support system that we can both depend on. 

Immediate Personal Goals:

81. Get to 145lbs (Not dead set on that goal, as I would rather have muscle than be 145 lbs, but it’s a starting goal)
82. Unpack the rest of the house by the end of this week. (October 8, 2022)
83. Finish Kai’s alphabet paintings by the end of 2022
84. Have the first draft of Scribbles of a Scrambled Mind Finished by the end of 2022
85. Do a stretching/yoga routine for 30 days straight starting October 7-November 6

Long-Term Personal Goals:

86. Get into weightlifting
87. Have 2000 followers on all my platforms
88. Have a self-sustaining garden
89. Have food storage for myself and my family
90. Have Kayteable a source of income

Immediate Family Goals:

91. Get Kai on a feeding schedule
92. Work on motor skills with Kai
93. Make room in our busy lives for more family time. 
94. Enjoy every day together. 
95. Have more yummy and healthy meals together. 

Long-Term Family Goals: 

96. Be able to rent out a house in 5 years as a profit
97. Open up Dylan’s business as well as my own
98. Be able to pay for Kai’s future
99. Be a healthy and well-rounded family. 
100. Be HAPPY.

If you made it all the way to the bottom congratulations- you are a trooper. That is all for the day- hope you enjoy the view from my laptop of my still-not-unpacked house. I will talk to you guys again very soon. Thank you for reading ass always-

-Kayte